Monday, July 18, 2011

Do I have an anxiety problem or just extremely nervous?

anxiety runs in my family, and i get nervous and scared and all sorts of upset over small things, and dumb things that i shouldnt be worrying about. for example, i would get a really bad headache, and start making myself think i was going to have an aneurism and die, because thats how my grandfather died... so i went to my doctor because it was becoming a big problem for me too, and all she could say to me was that it was a mental thing and you just have to realize its just your thoughts doing this to you, you have to control it yourself.obviously that wasnt much help... you could go to your doctor and she might prescribe you some medicine to calm your nerves down, but more than likely youll get the same response :/ doctors dont really listen to their patients when it comes to stuff like that.

Nipple piercing problem ?

I have the barbell in and it keeps getting caught on my bra constantly? Anyone else have this problem or a solution for this problem?

My boyfriend fingered my under the table in Math class and I think the teacher saw?

I sit next to my bf in math and he was messing around and put his hand under the table up my skirt while the teacher was asking me a question. He put his fingers right into my underwear and started fingering me. Even though he was trying to be *subtle* about it, he was leaning right over and I think the teacher knew what he was doing, because he didn't say anything but he got really flustered. I didn't know the answer to the question anyway, so I was just sitting there saying nothing with everyone staring at me, and then I... *came* and I didn't know what to do so just looked down at my desk and closed my eyes and when I looked up my teacher wasn't looking at me anymore, he was looking away, and he looked embarrassed. But no one else seemed to notice? And then he just asked someone else the question without even looking back at me, and he didn't look at me again through the rest of the lesson. Did he know what was happening?? I don't really think I can go to class again if he did :( It was really stupid and I was so mad at my boyfriend after but it's done now....

How can i do more weight with barbells? im really weak when it comes to barbells and its pissin me off?

Benching with barbells is different than benching with DBs. In order to be good at specific things, you cannot supplant those things. You must train to do those things specifically. Like pullups. Try using more "classic" strength training techniques and exercises. There is no need to use so many ridiculous "incline/decline" techniques. Overall strength training is what you need. Too much to post here, but I'd suggest reading Pavel Tsatsouline's Power To The People. It gives you all the basics of effective strength training without all the Hollywoodisms of "bodybuilding"...if you can stand his irritating "Soviet-style" sense of humour. Check out www.dragondoor.com. They have a lot of strength authors to help you on your way, buddy. Good luck to you.

What does this dream mean?

It was early in the morning, my dad woke me up cause he slammed the bathroom door hard (he had to go to work) and I decided to keep sleeping. So I fell asleep again and started dreaming this scary dream. (for me it was scary cause I rarely have scary dreams or dream anything at all) I dreamed that, school was about to begin and I needed to get prepared for it. So I went in my room to look for my gym clothes, and you know how in dreams everything's messed up? so instead of getting a Gym t-shirt, I got a pillow. Anyways I heard my parents calling me, so I talked from the hallway that I have right outside my room and I replied, "No not now, I have to get ready for school" (cause they asked me if I could do something real quick) and my dad replied angrily, "NO. You're gonna do this, and do it NOW." and I left my door, a TINY bit open so I could see into the room and there was a light reflection on the door. As I was arguing with my parents, for some reason I decided to look into the light reflection and I saw this massive shadow of a lady, tied hair, big breasts, she was wearing a skirt and a sweater. and she was walking. Once I saw that, I SCREAMED (in my dreams) and ran downstairs... thats where the dream stopped. I woke up terrified, I couldnt move, I didnt wanna open my eyes, and I was home alone (except my dog) again it was 4:33 am and this dream got me SHOOKED. what does it mean? Does it even have a meaning?

Prego & cant fall asleep easily..?

I'm 6weeks&2days prego. is it normal to have trouble sleeping?? usually I'm freaking tired but when I go to bed I can't seem to fall asleep easily. Till 1 or 2 in the morn. or gone longer.

My daughter is stuttering, why?

The Stuttering Foundation of America is your most professional free source of help. You can find e-books and online videos plus loads of information including what parents should and should not do at home. Your public library may have some of their books, too.